First, to pause and say their names, that by their names they be counted among us:
Jakelin Caal Maquin
Felipe Gomez-Alonso
Two children who died at our southern border, two children
in the custody of the United States, two children for whom we weep, for whom we
are responsible; two children who should have been filled with life, with joy,
with curiosity, their days unfolding before them. Two children whose parents
could not bear the impossibility of life without hope and so for their children
set out into the desert toward the mirage of the promised land and the hope of
which they dreamed. Eight-year old Felipe died on Christmas morning, a day that
for him should have been filled with magic and delight. As one child of the
Holocaust is easier to embrace than all Six Million at once, the tears come so
freely for these two children whose names are Jakelin and Felipe, age seven and
eight, two children whose names are now known among all the nameless and
numberless.


Our commentators remind us to hold on to who we are through
time, in all of our travels and travails across time and space. Rabbi Ovadia
S’forno (15th-16th century Italy) teaches so simply of the link between names
and survival: sh’mo shel adam hu
atzmi’yuto/a person’s name is their essence. Of the opening verse of the
Book of Names, Rashi (11th century France) wonders, as we do, why we had the
very same words near the end of the first book, B’reishit/Genesis, when Jacob
and his whole family come down into Egypt (Gen. 46:8), these are the names of the children of Israel that are coming to Egypt….
Rashi offers a beautiful insight, teaching that from the earlier verse we learn
that they were counted in their lifetimes
through their names/she’m’na’en b’chai’ye’hem bish’motam. And then he goes on
to tell of what we learn from the later verse, u’m’na’em achar mitatan/and so they are counted after their deaths.
Having explained why the repetition of a verse, Rashi poignantly tells of
deeper meaning, l’hodi’ah chibatam/to
make known that they are beloved, so in death as in life. Our ancestors
were numbered by their names and by their names made to count. They are
remembered and beloved by their names, as they were in life, so in death.
Through our names, and all that our names stand for, we survive.

Goodbye to my Juan,
goodbye, Rosalita,
Adios mis amigos,
Jesus y Maria;
You won’t have your
names when you ride the big airplane,
All they will call
you will be “deportees”
Helping us to see our own story as a paradigm, helping us to
feel the pain of others through our own pain, to honor the preciousness of each
one’s name, a powerfully beautiful midrash
teaches: A person has three
names/sh’losha shemot yesh ba’adam, one that God calls them, adam/human, one by
which their mother and father calls them, and one by which they call themself….
It is the name by which God calls us, adam/human,
that reminds us that every human is precious in the eyes of God and so should
each one be in our eyes. Other namings are added in a beautiful song by the
Israeli singer, Chava Albershtein. We are named, she sings, by our deeds, by
the natural world around us, by our work, and by those who love us and those
who hate us, by the sea, and by the seasons of a year. And in the end, she
sings, each person has a name… that is
given to them by their death/l’chol ish yesh shem… v’natan lo moto.
Beloved in life and so in death, we remember them by their
names, as given to them by God, by their parents, by themselves, and now by
their deaths, their characters only beginning to be shaped. Saying their names,
we count them among us and make their memories a blessing:
Jakelin Caal Maquin
Rabbi Victor H. Reinstein
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