What would you do? That is the question that lingers long
after the last scene in a Belgian film, “Two Days, One Night,” that my wife and
I watched recently. So too it is the question that is meant to follow us
through Torah, lingering in the spaces that give rise to midrashic searching, to questioning and wrestling. I am hardly a
film critic and am wary of watching if I don’t know a film’s “V” rating, the
“Victor factor,” whether too violent or too sad, preferring to watch movies
mostly to find respite from life’s harsher realities. Drawn to a Belgian film
initially as a connection with Mieke’s roots and family, it offered a powerful
reflection on life, pushing at times the limits of the “V” rating, but no more difficult
than engaging with parts of Torah. The film became for me a commentary on Torah
and life, as the two are joined in the context of living life with people,
bringing us to ask, “what would you do?”

Highlighting the stigma of mental illness as a subplot, the owner of the factory where she works is wary of Sandra’s return. Duplicitously setting the stage for the moral drama that we are meant to become part of, the owner of the factory offers a choice to the other workers.

Through the lens of this week’s Torah portion, Parashat Vayechi (Gen. 47:28-50:26),
that question becomes the test of what it means to truly live. Our response to
“what would you do?” becomes the moral measure of life, our own and of life
itself, of what it means to live with wholeness, integrity, and truth. The
question becomes more pointed when made real in given moments of our lives,
those times when we need to answer in real terms, not “what would you do?”, but
“what are you going to do?”
The Torah portion begins with a setting of the stage, with
words that on the surface seem simple, even pedestrian, telling of Yaakov’s
living in Egypt for the last seventeen years of his life. Now on his deathbed,
we are told, Vayechi Yaakov/and Jacob
lived…. That phrase offers its own teaching, a question pulsating beneath
its apparent simplicity, “what does it mean to truly live?” About to be
gathered to his people, Yaakov’s life swirls before him in all of its days and
nights, all of its highs and lows, a life filled with so much struggle and
strife, so much pain. Finally finding some solace in the dimming light of harsh
truth, a dysfunctional family whose torment he is largely responsible for,
there is a certain comfort in the questions that emerge. The questions that
begin on one person’s deathbed become for us questions of life that are
comforting in their way of encouraging us to live. Yaakov as Yisrael is calling
us as his children, b’nei
yisra’el/children of Israel to rise up each day to engage life and people
with integrity.


That Yaakov sought to fully live in Egypt in the latter
years of his life gives reality to his lasting teaching for us. It was here, in
exile, away from home, away from all he had hoped would be, that he wrestles
more deeply and earnestly than he had before. It is here that he finally finds
at least an approximation of wholeness, even if yet imperfect, with and within
his family. The holy RIM, Rabbi Yitzchak Meir of Rothenberg reminds us of Egypt
as the narrow places in our own lives, Mitzrayim,
from meytzar/strait, the places in
which we are challenged to yet live with truth and integrity, to make our way
without losing who we are. Ironically, it is Yaakov in Jewish tradition who is
associated with truth, not as representing the ideal of truth, but as a frail
human being who struggles, like all of us, toward the truth. Needing the blessing
of truth to help him on the way of truth, we say in words of prayer each
morning, thereby making the gift our own, titen
emet l’Yaakov/give truth to Yaakov (Micah 7:20). Helping us to see Yaakov’s
very human struggles as our own, however they may differ in degree, the RIM
teaches, in this way we are also able to
live in every Mitzrayim that is each one’s/al y’dei zeh y’cholin l’chi’yot
b’chol ha’mitzrayim she’yesh l’chol….

Rabbi Victor Reinstein
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